Wisdom


《合作机构的回应》
李慧兰讲师讨论题纲的思考分享，使亲职幼教不再是家长单向式的规条戒律，而是满有爱心的「放手」与「管教」，启迪家长给孩子「学习」成长的自由」。本人仅代表香港儿童启迪协会感谢李慧兰讲师的专业态度及服务精神，希望李慧兰讲师与本会再到其它社区筹划亲职幼教、启迪童心的家长活动，让更多家庭受惠，共同创建智慧和谐的社会。
香港儿童启廸协会执委会2006-2008年度主席黄筱锦

透过优质教育基金的拨款，有机会邀请李慧兰姑娘为幼稚园举办之「健康人生你有『计』」亲子健康成长工作坊作讲员。在活动当中李姑娘令我留下较深刻印象的是她会以家长为中心，就好像幼稚园现行鼓励以儿童为学习中心的取向，透过提问简单的问题，引发家长彼此互动分享讨论，达致双向性的沟通，较一般单向性的表达更能掌握家长在教导幼儿方面所遇上的困难，再配合特别制定的讲座主题，例如：亲亲大自然、放手管教…等话题，和李姑娘丰富的家长教育经验，让家长可以透过新的角度去了解、探讨和面对幼儿成长中的需要及困难，引发家长运用新的思维去进行亲子教育的方式，此手法较为特别，内容较为新鲜，令我有较深层次的反思。
圣公会麦理浩夫人中心石荫幼儿园及幼稚园校长蔡玛利亚

二零零七年十一月六日，本会邀请了创慧培训及顾问服务培训总监李慧兰女士进行「如何培养青春期子女责任感」工作坊，讲者透过短讲、情境个案讨论及教养风格自我检视等，协助父母明白如何配合子女在此阶段的成长特质施以适当的管教，建立子女自信和安全感，并学习做一个独立和负责任的年青人。会後各家长非常赞赏讲者内容充实、深入浅出，令大家获益良多。
将军澳香岛中学家长教师会主席蔡关洁玲

《家长心声》
I do appreciate your enthusiasm in teaching and grooming our future generations. Wish you happiness and success in designing more valuable courses for us.
Jessie Li

Thank you for giving us time and chance to share our personal experience in detail in class. Your feedback is very helpful and inspiring. Also, through the interflow and your integration of ideas, I am encouraged to apply what I learnt and reminded of.
May Lui

I really learn a lot through the program. Through the program, I learn more about "Acceptance" and "Affection". It is easy to understand but difficult to act them out. Through the program, it encouraged me to act it out in my daily life. It really works in helping me to build a closer and more harmony relation with my children. I enjoyed the small group discussion for I could concentrate easily and involve in sharing experience and questions. Let me thanks you for your kindness and patience in conducting the program.
Olivia

我现在教导及与孩子相处时，时时都会提醒自己要好好运用所学的要点，给予孩子更多的耐性，多赞赏，多鼓励，加上适当的管教；在改变自己的同时，亦发现了孩子正面的改变与回应。
Emily Chan

“ I had attended your course in Chai Wan- Family Welfare Centre on Parents’ Secret Rules ( the latter half part) and I found it was the best one that I had attended since last four years my daughter born. I had been attending different courses offered by different commercial bodies or government sponsored centres and your one had been the best. It was the most distilled one ( I did not know how to describe it in English) - I want to say that all the important and sophistication that one should learn ; one could get from your course and no need to go here and there already..............” .
Rita Lam

从来没有想过在这次"爱。Let Go"课程里会得到这么多, 未上课前还以为只是一般的理论课程吧.... 没到会是这么享受这短短的四堂!! 透过互动的上堂形式,透过深入的提问,透过坦诚的分享,从而令自己不断作出反思, 反思自己的动机, 反思究竟想儿子成为怎样的人.... 本来我真的很迷茫, 单是究竟替儿子选择哪一间幼稚园, 已令我不知所措, 但上完堂, 我终于知道自己的方向了....所以真的十分感激您!!
Sarah

我感觉上课很轻松活泼，可以有问有答，对教子女和亲子沟通有改善、我有希望可以和子女做朋友。
SM Lau

导师(李慧兰)透过实际生活中的例子以及很多的问题, 让我在教养儿女上有很多的反思和提醒, 特别是讨论到如何以正面思想教导儿女面对困难, 以及避免过度以儿女为中心,反而应让他们学习多考虑他人(如父母)的需要，很期待再参加李导师的课堂。
Mrs. C., Wong

I engaged Lee to be my coach with an objective to improve my parenting skills and relationship with my kids, who are aged 20 and 14 respectively. I enjoyed my 3 months’ coaching sessions with Lee. It was because when I shared my ups and downs in dealing with my kids, I got an active listener who understood my feelings so well. What I valued more is that Lee gave me honest feedback so that I could see the situations through the eyes of the kids. The coaching enabled me to discover my blind spots in relating with my kids. Lee demonstrated her coaching expertise to help me identify my improvement areas. Now, I am confident that I can build harmonious and enjoyable relationship with my kids in the near future.
Angela