《合作機構的回應》

李慧蘭講師討論題綱的思考分享,使親職幼教不再是家長單向式的 規條戒律,而是滿有愛心的「放手」與「管教」,啟迪家長給孩子「學習」成長的自由」。

本人僅代表香港兒童啟迪協會感謝李慧蘭講師的專業態度及服務精神,希望李慧蘭講師與本會再到其它社區籌劃親職幼教、啟迪童心的家 長活動,讓更多家庭受惠,共同創建智慧和諧的社會。

香港兒童啟廸協會
執委會2006-2008年度主席 黃筱錦



透過優質教育基金的撥款,有機會邀請李慧蘭姑娘為幼稚園舉辦之「健康人生你有『計』」親子健康成長工作坊作講員。在活動當中李姑娘令我留下較深刻印象的是她會以家長為中心,就好像幼稚園現行鼓勵以兒童為學習中心的取向,透過提問簡單的問題,引發家長彼此互動分享討論,達致雙向性的溝通,較一般單向性的表達更能掌握家長在教導幼兒方面所遇上的困難,再配合特別制定的講座主題,例如:親親大自然、放手管教…等話題,和李姑娘豐富的家長教育經驗,讓家長可以透過新的角度去了解、探討和面對幼兒成長中的需要及困難,引發家長運用新的思維去進行親子教育的方式,此手法較為特別,內容較為新鮮,令我有較深層次的反思。

聖公會麥理浩夫人中心
石蔭幼兒園及幼稚園校長 蔡瑪利亞



二零零七年十一月六日,本會邀請了創慧培訓及顧問服務培訓總監李慧蘭女士進行「如何培養青春期子女責任感」工作坊,講者透過短講、情境個案討論及教養風格自我檢視等,協助父母明白如何配合子女在此階段的成長特質施以適當的管教,建立子女自信和安全感,並學習做一個獨立和負責任的年青人。會後各家長非常讚賞講者內容充實、深入淺出,令大家獲益良多。

將軍澳香島中學家長教師會主席 蔡關潔玲



《家長心聲》

I do appreciate your enthusiasm in teaching and grooming our future generations. Wish you happiness and success in designing more valuable courses for us.

Jessie Li



Thank you for giving us time and chance to share our personal experience in detail in class. Your feedback is very helpful and inspiring. Also, through the interflow and your integration of ideas, I am encouraged to apply what I learnt and reminded of.

May Lui



I really learn a lot through the program. Through the program, I learn more about "Acceptance" and "Affection". It is easy to understand but difficult to act them out. Through the program, it encouraged me to act it out in my daily life. It really works in helping me to build a closer and more harmony relation with my children. I enjoyed the small group discussion for I could concentrate easily and involve in sharing experience and questions. Let me thanks you for your kindness and patience in conducting the program.

Olivia



我現在教導及與孩子相處時,時時都會提醒自己要好好運用所學的要點,給予孩子更多的耐性,多讚賞,多鼓勵,加上適當的管教;在改變自己的同時,亦發現了孩子正面的改變與回應。

Emily Chan



“ I had attended your course in Chai Wan- Family Welfare Centre on Parents’ Secret Rules ( the latter half part) and I found it was the best one that I had attended since last four years my daughter born. I had been attending different courses offered by different commercial bodies or government sponsored centres and your one had been the best. It was the most distilled one ( I did not know how to describe it in English) - I want to say that all the important and sophistication that one should learn ; one could get from your course and no need to go here and there already..............” .

Rita Lam



從來沒有想過在這次"愛。Let Go"課程裡會得到這麼多, 未上課前還以為只是一般的理論課程吧.... 沒到會是這麼享受這短短的四堂!! 透過互動的上堂形式,透過深入的提問,透過坦誠的分享,從而令自己不斷作出反思, 反思自己的動機, 反思究竟想兒子成為怎樣的人....

本來我真的很迷茫, 單是究竟替兒子選擇哪一間幼稚園, 已令我不知所措, 但上完堂, 我終於知道自己的方向了....所以真的十分感激您!!

Sarah



我感覺上課很輕鬆活潑,可以有問有答,對教子女和親子溝通有改善、我有希 望可以和子女做朋友 。

SM Lau



導師(李慧蘭)透過實際生活中的例子以及很多的問題, 讓我在教養兒女上有很多 的反思和提醒, 特別是討論到如何以正面思想教導兒女面對困難, 以及避免過度以兒女為中心, 反而應讓他們學習多考慮他人(如父母)的需要,很期待再參加李導師的課堂

Mrs. C., Wong



I engaged Lee to be my coach with an objective to improve my parenting skills and relationship with my kids, who are aged 20 and 14 respectively. I enjoyed my 3 months’ coaching sessions with Lee. It was because when I shared my ups and downs in dealing with my kids, I got an active listener who understood my feelings so well. What I valued more is that Lee gave me honest feedback so that I could see the situations through the eyes of the kids. The coaching enabled me to discover my blind spots in relating with my kids. Lee demonstrated her coaching expertise to help me identify my improvement areas. Now, I am confident that I can build harmonious and enjoyable relationship with my kids in the near future.

Angela